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Strong Men Aren't Born. They're Built.

The Forge is a men's health resource and community, covering hormones, physical health, mental health, and everything in between. Built by physicians. Built for the whole man, not just one symptom.

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Our mission

A men's health resource for hormones, body, mind, and purpose.

Most men get fragments. A doctor for hormones, a therapist for the mind, a trainer for the body, none of them talking to each other. The Forge exists to close that gap, treating hormones, physical health, mental health, sexual health, and purpose as one connected system.

Built by physicians

Every framework comes from doctors who treat men daily, in real practice, with real patients.

One connected system

Hormones, body, mind, and purpose, treated as parts of the same man, not separate specialties.

A real curriculum

Books and guided courses that build on each other, so the work actually goes somewhere.

A working brotherhood

Men at different stages, grouped by where they actually are, working through it together.

What we cover

Hormones & Testosterone

Understanding what's changed, what's normal, and what can actually be done about it.

Physical & Metabolic Health

Strength, energy, weight, and the biology behind why things feel harder than they used to.

Mental & Emotional Health

Stress, burnout, anxiety, and the parts of a man's mind most people never ask about.

Sexual Health

Libido, performance, and confidence, addressed directly instead of in silence.

Purpose & Relationships

The identity and meaning gap underneath the physical symptoms.

Whole-Body Health

The everyday foundation, sleep, nutrition, and preventive care, that everything else depends on.

The numbers don't lie

You're not broken. You're operating without a map.

You did what you were supposed to do. Built something. Carried the weight. Showed up. And somewhere along the way, the instructions ran out. You're not imagining it. The data backs it up.

1% Yearly testosterone decline since the 1980s Hormones
6 yrs Shorter life expectancy than women Physical Health
3.5x Higher suicide rate than women Mental Health
20 min Daily time with friends, down from 60 Relationships

Sourced from national health data and the 2023 U.S. Surgeon General advisory on loneliness.

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Your community, in your pocket.

The feed, the courses, and the groups. Built for men doing the work, launching soon.

  • The FeedWhere announcements land first and members show up for each other, in public.
  • The CoursesStructured programs across hormones, physical health, mental health, and more. The Tempering lives here.
  • The RoomSmaller groups sorted by where you actually are, not one big undifferentiated room.
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In their own words

Dr. Sage Wheeler and Dr. Ashley May are both licensed naturopathic physicians who have spent years treating men across hormones, physical health, and mental health, not just one symptom at a time.

"I believe that a man's greatest fear is to be shown his true potential and to realize just how far he has to get there. When we let ourselves down, there is no one to offer grace or forgiveness. We must earn it ourselves and it is one of the hardest things to do. The closer we get to our true potential, the less the burden of grief that we must hold for a life wasted. The less to forgive for time lost. Starting today may seem hard, but forgiving yourself for never starting just may be impossible." — Sage Wheeler, personal journal, age 21

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Two books. One path forward.

01 / The Forge Library Taking Back Alpha book cover by Dr. Sage Wheeler

Taking Back Alpha

A clinician's map for men who are physically depleted, emotionally disconnected, and tired of choosing between being strong and being human.

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02 / The Forge Library Reforging Masculinity book cover by Dr. Ashley May

Reforging Masculinity

A literary work on adult masculinity, tracing the slow work of becoming, written for men who are ready for change.

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A field guide The Five Domains ebook cover by Dr. Sage Wheeler and A.D. May

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The Five Domains

A short guide built from the frameworks behind both Taking Back Alpha and Reforging Masculinity: hormones, physical health, mental health, sexual health, and purpose, and where to start with each one.

Coming soon

Field notes

Writing worth your time.

Purpose

When the Script Runs Out

Somewhere in a man's 40s, the map he's been following stops making sense. This piece looks at what that moment feels like and what to do with it.

8 min read
Hormones

What Nobody Tells You About Testosterone in Your 40s

The decline is gradual, common, and treatable, but almost nobody explains what's actually happening or what to do about it.

7 min read
Field Notes coming soon

Self-evaluation

Start with a clearer picture.

Clinically used screening tools for mental health and hormone-related symptoms. Results are informational only and do not replace a clinical evaluation.

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Depression and Anxiety Self-Evaluation

PHQ-9 · GAD-7 · MADRS

Validated questionnaires used worldwide to screen for depression and anxiety severity. Choose the tool that best matches what you are experiencing.

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Hormones & Men's Health Self-Evaluation

ADAM · AMS

Screening tools related to androgen deficiency symptoms and aging male health. Informational only. Not a diagnosis or TRT treatment plan.

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Community

A brotherhood, not a feed of strangers.

Men going through the same things, mental, physical, hormonal, and more, in structured conversation, not an open forum. Grouped by where you actually are.

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